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Apr. 1st, 2019 09:11 am
unearthlymarmot: Booster Gold wearing a suit over his costume ([ dc ] hey golden boy)
Sorry I haven't been posting much fandom stuff. Obviously a lot has been going on in my life since my dad passed.

I wasn't able to get an apartment lined up in time for moving out of the one I shared with dad, so I'm staying with a friend in her family member's RV. This way my cat can stay with me without getting overwhelmed by the dogs. He wasn't socialized with dogs so they'd really freak him out.

I'm seeing some apartments on Wednesday, and am hoping to move into one as soon as possible!

Since there's no will, I had to wait 40 days to gain access to dad's finances. I'm headed to bank later today to close out his account and hopefully get that money into my account. Any money I had is tapped out right now, and I can't keep asking my friends to help me, because money doesn't grow on trees! So I'm really hoping to get that money today.

The person who is lending me this RV is also buying dad's truck from me, so that will bring in some money too. I'm keeping the car, and planning to learn to drive in it.

The tribe also has some money waiting for me, I just need to submit an application to get access to it.

I've got a few job applications in, and will be doing more and more! Need to get some work as soon as possible.

Dad's service is on the 13th, and his urn is being buried at the tribal cemetery just after that.

Emotionally I'm ... stressed but okay. Yesterday while we were moving things  I just had to sit down and cry. Getting the move done in two days was very physically taxing, and it was also a lot to have to get rid of a lot of dad's stuff, and to see the apartment we shared empty ... I'm feeling alright so far today though.
unearthlymarmot: Tim Drake and Stephanie Brown ([ dc ] we meet in the middle)
 I just wanted to say I appreciate all your comments! I didn't have a lot of energy to reply to everyone, but I am very thankful for your condolences.
unearthlymarmot: Supergirl ([ dc ] girl of steel)
Dad had multiple lock boxes/safes, and I just got into the last one, that was the hardest to crack and ... I don't know what I thought would be there, but it was all stuff related to me.

Old report cards. The fancy award I won in elementary school for reading. My footprints from the hospital where I was born.

That's what he kept in his most secure box.

What a sweet man.

Hi.

Feb. 19th, 2019 07:58 pm
unearthlymarmot: Wiccan looking gloomy (Default)
Sorry I haven't posted in so long, things have been hectic between dealing with dad's health and a recent snowstorm.

My dad passed away last night. I found him this morning.

I'm with a friend right now, and my uncle is in town to help me out. I cried a lot today but right now I'm just tired and in shock.

Tomorrow I have to contact the funeral home and stuff like that.

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